NO.6742069

0 名前：真っ暗：2017/05/18 20:50

大学一年の娘が中退することになりました。
勉強についていけないそうです。

ショックが大きいです。

大学で踏ん張れなければ、
仕事でも踏ん張れないと思うので、
お先真っ暗です。

身近で中退した方しりませんか？
これからどうなっていくのでしょうか？

唯一頭を切り替えようと頑張れるのは、
学費と一人暮らしの諸々のお金が
浮く・・・というだけです。

61 名前：@：2017/05/21 16:14

>>1
あの時の主さんですよね?

私も、レスしたものです。

娘さんが中退するのと、息子さんが中退するのとは
ちょっと違ってくると思います。

女性は、時期時期で結婚妊娠出産育児と
細切れに役割が変わるので、女性の一生分の
ライフサイクルを見通して、娘さんの生き方に
合う選択をしていけばいいのではないでしょうか。

なので、今の時期の中退はなにかのサインかも
知れません。
人生の岐路に立っている時期なんだと私は
思うんです。どうか、娘さんのことを第一に
考えてあげてください。娘さんにとっての人生の
選択肢を見極めてあげてください。

(長々と書きましたが、一言で言うと中退させてあげて
ゆっくり休養した後、娘さんにどんな生き方をしたいのか選ばせてあげてくださいってことです。)

62 名前：呆れる：2017/05/22 08:32

>>41
>世の中あなたみたいな貧乏人だけじゃないのよ。
>裕福で優しい人もたくさんいるのよ。


あんた馬鹿？
お金でしか判断できないなんて、低脳なんだね。

63 名前：男女で違うか？：2017/05/22 08:42

>>61
>
>娘さんが中退するのと、息子さんが中退するのとは
>ちょっと違ってくると思います。
>
>女性は、時期時期で結婚妊娠出産育児と
>細切れに役割が変わるので、女性の一生分の
>ライフサイクルを見通して、娘さんの生き方に
>合う選択をしていけばいいのではないでしょうか。
>

娘だったら良くて、息子だったら就職があるから中退はやめたほうがいいって言ってるの？

私は娘でも息子でも一緒だと思うよ。
男でも女でも辞めて次にいける人と、辞めて引きこもる人と両方でしょ。
女だから家事手伝いで、結婚しないでそのうち親の面倒を見てくれたらいいやって思えるならそれでいいけど・・・


主さんのお子さん、うちの妹と同じです。
うちの妹は、いろいろ親がお金をかけたあげく今も親のすねかじりのニートです。
もう４０ちかいのに、何してるんだろう。

64 名前：思い出した話：2017/05/22 08:51

>>63
この間、再放送で見た分なんだけど
なぜこんなところに日本人て番組で
アメリカでナイジェリア人に嫁いだ人の人生だったんだけど

ちょっと抜け抜けで見てたんではあるけど、
その人は学生のときにいじめられて？アメリカに逃げて？
でも１８で帰ってきてしまったら母親が

「家には一切入れない。自分で生きていけ」と放り出されて
しかたなく住み込みのバイトでお金貯めて
またアメリカ行って？大学出て？
今の旦那さんと結婚して今大家族の中で幸せに暮らしているという。

その時母親がなぜ家へ入れなかったかといったら
またアメリカに逃げずに日本で努力することをしてほしかった？
そんな感じだったと思います。

放り出すのも愛かと考えさせられた。

65 名前：できないんだよねえええええ：2017/05/22 09:10

>>64
>
>放り出すのも愛かと考えさせられた。

考えるけどできない。。。

あ、主さんじゃないけどさ。
反抗期の子供に手を焼く母です。

主さんのお子さんはまじめすぎなのかなって思う。

ダメな人間の言うこと参考にしちゃだめだけど
授業は寝てたし
テストは過去問対策やカンニングまでした。

資格を取るような学校だったら難しいかもだけど
適当に大学卒の資格を取ることだってできなくはないかも。
私は賛成じゃないけど
大学は学業だけじゃないってお母さんここにも多いし
それも一つだと思う。

私は大学生活がモラトリアムだったけど
大学生活から逃げて家庭でモラトリアムってこともあるんだね。
やり直せるし、適当にもできるけど
引きこもったら難しいかも。・

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69 名前：もったいないね：2017/06/16 17:44

>>1
たぶん友達関係ができなかったんだよね。

ワタシは理系だったので、高校の時と同じように朝から夕方まで学校にいて、独り暮らしなのでその後にバイトしたり、同じサークルの子の家にいったり、誰かが泊まりにきたりして、まぁまぁ充実してた。

あまりにもフリー過ぎるとでる授業もバラバラだったり、顔見知りを作るのが遅れちゃって友達を作るスタートダッシュに間にあわず、なかなかなのかなー？


なんとか研究室やゼミがでてくるような学年までいたら、少しは狭い人数の中にいられると思うけど、もうやめるってきめちゃった？

大学生のいいところは身分が安定してバイトやり放題のところ。

バイトで友達できないかな？
授業は単位を落とさない程度に頑張ったらどうにかならないかな？

>大学一年の娘が中退することになりました。
>勉強についていけないそうです。
>
>ショックが大きいです。
>
>大学で踏ん張れなければ、
>仕事でも踏ん張れないと思うので、
>お先真っ暗です。
>
>身近で中退した方しりませんか？
>これからどうなっていくのでしょうか？
>
>唯一頭を切り替えようと頑張れるのは、
>学費と一人暮らしの諸々のお金が
>浮く・・・というだけです。

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76 名前：だれ：2017/06/16 22:23

>大学一年の娘が中退することになりました。
>勉強についていけないそうです。
>
>ショックが大きいです。
>
>大学で踏ん張れなければ、
>仕事でも踏ん張れないと思うので、
>お先真っ暗です。
>
>身近で中退した方しりませんか？
>これからどうなっていくのでしょうか？
>
>唯一頭を切り替えようと頑張れるのは、
>学費と一人暮らしの諸々のお金が
>浮く・・・というだけです。

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83 名前：ハロー：2017/06/17 04:01

>>1
友達ですが、それから懸命に勉強して
公務員になってました。

三種の国家公務員。

挫折する人はたくさんいます。
そこから頑張って前に進んでいけばいいと思う。
就職が嫌でなければ職安に行ってみるのもいいかも。
若いといっぱい職があります。

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89 名前：30：2017/06/17 16:08

>>1
なんで30にだけぶら下がって英語のやつがくるの？

>大学一年の娘が中退することになりました。
>勉強についていけないそうです。
>
>ショックが大きいです。
>
>大学で踏ん張れなければ、
>仕事でも踏ん張れないと思うので、
>お先真っ暗です。
>
>身近で中退した方しりませんか？
>これからどうなっていくのでしょうか？
>
>唯一頭を切り替えようと頑張れるのは、
>学費と一人暮らしの諸々のお金が
>浮く・・・というだけです。

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108 名前：目指せ満：2017/06/18 08:35

>>1
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109 名前：目指せ満：2017/06/18 08:35

>>1
>大学一年の娘が中退することになりました。
>勉強についていけないそうです。
>
>ショックが大きいです。
>
>大学で踏ん張れなければ、
>仕事でも踏ん張れないと思うので、
>お先真っ暗です。
>
>身近で中退した方しりませんか？
>これからどうなっていくのでしょうか？
>
>唯一頭を切り替えようと頑張れるのは、
>学費と一人暮らしの諸々のお金が
>浮く・・・というだけです。

110 名前：目指せ満：2017/06/18 08:36

>>1
>大学一年の娘が中退することになりました。
>勉強についていけないそうです。
>
>ショックが大きいです。
>
>大学で踏ん張れなければ、
>仕事でも踏ん張れないと思うので、
>お先真っ暗です。
>
>身近で中退した方しりませんか？
>これからどうなっていくのでしょうか？
>
>唯一頭を切り替えようと頑張れるのは、
>学費と一人暮らしの諸々のお金が
>浮く・・・というだけです。